Quick post for you all….
Sorry for being MIA but this is a quick post posing a big question.
I am 13 weeks pregnant with our second little one. We had out son who is 19 month actual 15 months corrected at 24 and 2….
Since we started telling people…
We told early because we thought I was 15 weeks not 12… Scan proved otherwise…
There have been a few people who are making back handed comments like “maybe you can cook this one longer”, or “lets hope you keep it up there this time.”
The main guilt most preemie moms feel is “what did I do to cause this? Is it my fault my baby had to fight so hard?”
And in most cases the answer is no, but when people make these comments it brings up all those feelings again. Making, well in this case, me feel like I am failing my children.
Does anyone else feel this way? Did anyone else go through this? How did you cope?
I will post again soon